custom and ritual

What makes us consider certain customs perfectly natural while other peoples do the exact opposite? And why is it so difficult to change laws, even when they are clearly flawed? Michel de Montaigne posed these questions more than four centuries ago, and his answers remain strikingly relevant today. In this twenty-second essay from his first book, the French philosopher examines the extraordinary power that custom holds over our thoughts and actions — a theme that resonates deeply with anyone who values self-examination and the role of ritual in shaping human life. The Core of the Essay: Custom as Tyrant Montaigne opens with a deceptively simple observation: custom determines nearly everything we consider normal. What we eat, how we sleep, the clothes we wear, the way we bury our dead — all of this varies radically from culture to culture. Yet people everywhere experience their own practices as the natural, even the only correct way to live. Custom, Montaigne argues, is a tyrannical mistress who takes possession of us by stealth. The essay weaves together two interconnected themes. The first explores how custom clouds our judgment and blinds us to the arbitrariness of our own practices. The second applies this insight […]