custom and prejudice

What if our deepest convictions are nothing more than habits, worn into us by time and culture? In his essay on custom and convention, Michel de Montaigne poses an uncomfortable question that strikes at the heart of human connection: how can we truly live together when each of us is trapped in the web of our own traditions? Written in the sixteenth century, this question proves remarkably relevant for anyone who reflects on a brotherhood that transcends borders. The Paradox of the Familiar Montaigne opens with an observation that is at once simple and deeply unsettling: we regard whatever is unfamiliar to us as barbarous. The Greek calls the Persian a barbarian; the Persian does the same to the Greek. Both are utterly convinced that their own customs represent the standard of civilization. Here lies a paradox that Montaigne explores with undisguised curiosity — the familiar feels self-evident, but only because we happened to grow up with it. This insight resonates deeply with Freemasonry, which from its very origins has brought together men of different religious and cultural backgrounds. In the lodge, men meet who might never have crossed paths outside its walls. The question Montaigne raises is the same […]