Grieving a Colleague: What Loss Teaches Us About Ethics
The phone goes silent after the message. A referee stares at an empty field where yesterday a familiar face still stood. The news of a valued colleague’s sudden death hits like a hammer blow. In that moment of loss, a question emerges that reaches far beyond personal grief: what does our mourning reveal about who we truly are — and how we treat one another? The Silence After Loss When a colleague dies unexpectedly, a hole opens up in the world. Not just in the workplace, but in the fabric of everyday connections. The world of refereeing, like any tight-knit community, knows this feeling of collective grief. These are moments when achievements and results suddenly seem meaningless. What remains is the memory of a person — shared experiences, the way someone carried themselves through life. In Freemasonry, we know these moments of stillness as well. When a Brother enters the Eternal East, as passing is described in Masonic terms, the lodge gathers in reflection. Not to judge what someone accomplished, but to remember who someone was. This tradition reminds us that ethics is not only about action — it is also about remembrance and honor. Ethics in the Face of […]